حصريأ: كراسة الشروط لمشروع الأسكان الأجتماعي محدودي الدخل

 زوجتي لم تعد جميلة || ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﻳﺮﻯ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ ﺯﻭﺟتة ﺃﻗﻞ ﺟﻤﺎﻻ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻷﺧﺮﻳﺎﺕ ؟!! 

                     *** زوجتي لم تعد جميلة ***

ﺫﻫﺐ ﺃﺣﺪﻫﻢ ﺇﻟﻰ ﻋﺎﻟﻢ ﺩﻳﻦ ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺭ ﺑﺎﻟﺤﻜﻤﺔ ﻭﺍﻟﺘﺠﺮﺑﺔ
ﻳﺸﺘﻜﻲ ﻭﻳﻘﻮﻝ :

ﺣﻴﻦ ﺃﻋﺠﺒﺖ ﺑﺰﻭﺟﺘﻲ , ﻛﺎﻧﺖ ﻓﻲ ﻧﻈﺮﻱ ﻛﺄﻥ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻟﻢ
ﻳﺨﻠﻖ ﻣﺜﻠﻬﺎ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻢ ..!

ﻭﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﺧﻄﺒﺘﻬﺎ.. ﺭﺃﻳﺖ ﺍﻟﻜﺜﻴﺮﺍﺕ ﻣﺜﻠﻬﺎ

ﻭﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﺗﺰﻭﺟﺘﻬﺎ .. ﺭﺃﻳﺖ ﺍﻟﻜﺜﻴﺮﺍﺕ ﺃﺟﻤﻞ ﻣﻨﻬﺎ

ﻓﻠﻤﺎ ﻣﻀﺖ ﺑﻀﻌﺔ ﺃﻋﻮﺍﻡ ﻋﻠﻰ ﺯﻭﺍﺟﻨﺎ .. ﺭﺃﻳﺖ ﺃﻥ ﻛﻞُّ
ﺍﻟﻨَﺴَﺎﺀِ ﺃﺣْﻠَﻰ ﻣِﻦْ ﺯَﻭﺟَﺘِﻲ ...

ﻓﻘﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻜﻴﻢ : ﺃﺃﺧﺒﺮُﻙ ﺑﻤﺎ ﻫﻮ ﺃﺩﻫﻰ ﻣﻦ ﺫﻟﻚ ﻭﺃﻣﺮّ ؟

ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ : ﻧﻌﻢ !

ﻓﻘﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻜﻴﻢ : ﻟﻮ ﺃﻧﻚ ﺗﺰﻭﺟﺖ ﻛﻞ ﻧﺴﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ

..ﻟﺮﺃﻳﺖَ ﺍﻟﻜﻼﺏ ﺍﻟﻀﺎﻟﺔ ﻓﻲ ﺍﻟﺸﻮﺍﺭﻉ ﺃﺟﻤﻞ ﻣﻦ ﻛﻞّ
ﻧﺴﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻤﻴﻦ ..

ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ : ﻟﻤﺎﺫﺍ ﺗﻘﻮﻝ ﺫﻟﻚ ؟

ﻓﻘﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻜﻴﻢ : ﻷﻥ ﺍﻟﻤﺸﻜﻠﺔ ﻟﻴﺴﺖ ﻓﻲ ﺯﻭﺟﺘﻚ ..

ﺍﻟﻤﺸﻜﻠﺔ ﺃﻥ ﺍﻹﻧﺴﺎﻥ ﺇﺫﺍ ﺃﻭﺗﻲ ﻗﻠﺒﺎً ﻃﻤّﺎﻋﺎً، ﻭﺑﺼﺮﺍً
ﺯﺍﺋﻐﺎً، ﻭﺧﻼ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﺤﻴﺎﺀ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ .. ﻓﺈﻧﻪ ﻻ ﻳﻤﻜﻦ ﺃﻥ
ﻳﻤﻸ ﻋﻴﻨﻪ ﺇﻻ ﺗﺮﺍﺏ ﻣﻘﺒﺮﺗﻪ ..

ﻳﺎ ﺭﺟﻞ ! ﻣﺸﻜﻠﺘﻚ ﻫﻲ ﺃﻧﻚ ﻻ ﺗﻐﺾّ ﺑﺼﺮﻙ ﻋﻤﺎ ﺣﺮّﻡ
ﺍﻟﻠﻪ..

ﺃﺗﺮﻳﺪ ﺷﻴﺌﺎً ﺗُﻌﻴﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻣﺮﺃﺗَﻚ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺳﺎﻟﻒ ﻋﻬﺪﻫﺎ.. ﺃﺟﻤﻞ
ﻧﺴﺎﺀ ﺍﻟﻌﺎﻟﻢ؟؟

ﻗﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺮﺟﻞ : ﻧﻌﻢ ..
ﻓﻘﺎﻝ ﺍﻟﺤﻜﻴﻢ : ﺍﻏﻀﺾ ﺑﺼﺮﻙ .. ﻗﺎﻝ ﺗﻌﺎﻟﻰ :
ﻗُﻞْ ﻟِﻠْﻤُﺆْﻣِﻨِﻴﻦَﻳَﻐُﻀُّﻮﺍ ﻣِﻦْ ﺃَﺑْﺼَﺎﺭِﻫِﻢْ
ﻭَﻳَﺤْﻔَﻈُﻮﺍ ﻓُﺮُﻭﺟَﻬُﻢ ﺫَٰﻟِﻚَ
ﺃَﺯْﻛَﻰٰ ﻟَﻬُﻢْ ۗ
ﺇِﻥَّ ﺍﻟﻠَّﻪَ ﺧَﺒِﻴﺮٌ ﺑِﻤَﺎ ﻳَﺼْﻨَﻌُﻮﻥ

ﻣﺎ ﻟﻴﺲ ﻓﻲ ﻳﺪﻳﻚ ﺳﺘﺮﺍﻩ ﺍﻷﺟﻤﻞ ﻭ ﺍﻷﻓﻀﻞ ﻣﻬﻤﺎ
ﻓﻌﻠﺖ ..ﻭﻋﻨﺪﻣﺎ ﺗﺤﺼﻞ ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺳﻴﺼﺒﺢ ﻋﺎﺩﻳﺎ ﻓﻲ
ﻋﻴﻨﻚ..

ﻓﺎﺭﺽَ ﺑﻤﺎ ﻟﺪﻳﻚ ﻭ ﻻ ﺗﻜﻦ ﺃﻧﺎﻧﻴﺎ .. ﻷﻧﻚ ﺳﺘﺒﻘﻰ ﺗﻠﻬﺚ
ﻭﺭﺍﺀ ﺟﻤﺎﻝ ﻭ ﻣﺘﺎﻉ ﺍﻟﺪﻧﻴﺎ ﺇﻟﻰ ﺃﻥ ﺗﺴﺠّﻰ ﻓﻲ ﻗﺒﺮﻙ ..
ﻫﻨﺎﻙ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻮ ﺃﺟﻤﻞ ﻭ ﺃﺭﻭﻉ ﻣﻦ ﻛﻞ ﻫﺬﺍ .. ﻋﺒﺎﺩﺓ ﺍﻟﻠﻪ ﻭ
ﺍﻟﻌﻤﻞ ﺍﻟﺼﺎﻟﺢ .. ﺗﻠﻚ ﻟﺬﺓ ﻻ ﻳﻌﺮﻓﻬﺎ الا من عاش لاجلها

خاصم رجل زوجته فغضبت .

وكتمت وجعلت تضع ملابسها في الحقيبه عازمه على الذهاب إلى بيت أهلها وأحس زوجها بالأمر فبادرها بكلمة جميلة وإبتسامة لطيفة.

ثم سألها : ماذا تفعلين
فقالت ادخل ملابس الصيف واخرج ملابس الشتاء
رقيقات هن ترضيهن الكلمة وتكفيهن الإبتسامة
التلطف مع الإناث والرفق بهن دليل على اكتمال الرجوله

قال صلى الله عليه وسلم
ﻻ يكرمهن إلا كريم وﻻ يهينهن إلا لئيم
فسحقاً لاناس يظنون بأن من يرفق ببنات حواء عديم الشخصيه
كن حذرا أيها الرجل أن تجعل المرأة تبكي لأن الله يحصي دمعتها

فهي خلقت من ضلعك

ليس من قدمك لتمشي عليها
ولا من رأسك لكي تتعالى عليها
ولكن خلقت من جانب ضلعك كي تتساوى بك
ومن جانب قلبك كي تحبها

رائعة هي الأُنثى

في طفولتها تفتح لأبيها باباً في الجنة
وفي شبابها تُكمل دين زوجها
وفي أمومتها تكون الجنّة تحت قدميها

"المقال مترجم بالإنجليزية"

"The article is translated into English."

My wife is not beautiful anymore || Why does a man see his wife as less beautiful than other women? !!

                     *** My wife is no longer pretty ***

One of them went to the world of religion famous for wisdom and experiment.

He complains and says:

When I admired my wife, in my opinion she was as if God did not

He creates an idiom in the world ..!

And when I got engaged to her ... many more saw her

And when I married her ... many women saw more beautiful than her

When a few years have passed since we got married ... I saw that every

Women are sweeter than my wife ...

The wise man said: Can I tell you what is more important than that?

The man said: Yes!

The wise man said: If you had married all the women of the world

... you have seen stray dogs on the streets more beautiful than all

Women of the World ..

The man said: Why are you saying that?

The wise man said: Because the problem is not with your wife ..

The problem is that if a person is given a greedy heart and eyesight

Forgiving and devoid of modesty from God ... for he cannot

He only fills his eyes with the dust of his tomb.

Oh man! Your problem is that you do not turn a blind eye to what is forbidden

God ..

I want something to bring your wife back to her predecessor .. the most beautiful

Women of the World ??

The man said: Yes.

Al-Hakim said: Lower your gaze .. God Almighty said:

Say to the believers

And preserve their vagaries that

Highest for them ۗ

God is All-Knowing in what they do

What you do not have in your hands is the most beautiful and the best of your eyes

It did..and when you get it it will be normal in

Your eyes ..

Accept what you have and do not be selfish ... because you will remain gasping.

Behind the beauty and joys of the world until it is shrouded in your grave ..

There is more beautiful and wonderful than all of this .. the worship of God and

Good work .. That is a pleasure that only those who lived for it would know it

A man quarreled with his wife, and she got angry.

She hid and put her clothes in the bag, determined to go to her family's house, and her husband felt the matter, so he initiated her with a beautiful word and a nice smile.

Then he asked her: What are you doing

She said, "Enter the summer clothes and take out the winter clothes."

They are gentle and satisfied with the word and a smile

Kindness to females and gentleness with them is evidence of the completeness of masculinity

PBUH" said

They are only honored by generous people, and only the mean will insult them

Crush, people think that whoever is attached to Eve's daughters is impersonal

Be careful, man, to make the woman cry because God is counting her tears

It was created from your rib

Not from your foot to walk on

Nor from your head to be condescending about it

But it was created from the side of your rib to be level with you

And from the side of your heart to love it

Wonderful is the female

As a child, she opens a door to Heaven for her father

And in her youth, she completes her husband's religion

In her maternity Paradise is under her feet